Should i be like other teenage boys and sleep with girls and grind at dances?

ok so friday i went to a school dance and grind danced with a girl and felt kinda good but really guilty, should i continue this behavior or stick to my old habits of no kissing or anything, oh ive never kissed a girl or done anything btw, and im a freshman, and if i do decide to start kissing and grind dancing and such (no sex) should i do it with anyone or just gf? as much details as possible plz!Should i be like other teenage boys and sleep with girls and grind at dances?
Oh jeez, I'm a year ahead of you and even though I'm a girl, I can still relate to your problem easily. You see everyone around you grinding and making provocative movements towards one another. You feel the need to jump in and join because EVERYONE else is in there. But all that it is, is practical dry-humping, not that special. You could live without rubbing bodies with a girl in a two hour dance. Especially if you are having feelings of guilt, inside that's showing you already disapprove of it. You appear to be more traditional, which is great to hear from a guy. It is so much of a turn off when guys make it obvious they just want a piece of ***, unless your a whore. So I suggest you stick to your gentleman ways when it comes to school dances. If your with someone you care about and are comfortable with each other to be that close, go ahead and grind if you wish. The pressures of how far you've gone is horrible. Trust me, I know. I haven't had my true first kiss yet and honestly it doesn't bother me. I believe that when the moments right and I'm with someone I truly care about, it will happen and it'll be worth the wait. I won't have to regret kissing someone that didn't matter. All my friends have either had sex, done everything except sex, or just make-out frequently. And I guarantee, almost all of them wish they waited. I personally have promised myself to remain a virgin through high school. Who says having sex and everything in between in mandatory in high school?! Hope it all works out! Do it when you need to, not when you ';should';.Should i be like other teenage boys and sleep with girls and grind at dances?
No, stick to your old behavior. It sooo doesn't make you look like a respectable guy when you're grinding chicks at dances, sleeping around with every girl, and kissing everything with a vagina. You haven't had sex anyone yet, keep it that way. You should NOT do with just anyone. It'd be nice if you waited for marriage, but wait until you get into a serious relationship with a girl at the very least, don't just bang anyone.





Some girls (the nice girls) find it a bit of a turn on when they get involved with a guy who hasn't kissed anyone yet, and is still pure sexually. It makes them feel special, and wanted. It's hard to find them though, because some girls are only looking for a good screw, you just have to wait until the right girl comes along. It's always better to wait. Just to stick to your old ways. They're gentlemen-like, classier, and just plain better.
in my opinion......no!





unless that girl likes that....... O_O





but in reality, i know like 99.999% (i know im just exaggerating) all my friends hate guys who are sleazy.. well if that's is who you are, we cant help it.


ok just remember, heaps of really nice girls (inside and the outside)


would LOVE a boyfriend who is a gentleman. im not telling you to be like a real p*ssy.. but its like how u respect/treat a girl.





and on the side with kissing, well its fine as long as its like not FULL ON make out in front of everyone! like PDA much! haha





~stick to gf girl grinding. coz if u have a gf and u grind someone else... its gna get messy.....!!





oh btw. my advise doesn't fit all girls.. so get to know what the ';like'; before you do anything ... hahahaha





i hope this long answer helps in anyway :D





stick to your values and morals and what you think is right.
well if you want to be a player (which most girls dislike) then you can keep grinding on other girls but i would say just do it with your gf. you shouldn't do it with just anyone because somehow your gf will find out about it and then you're screwed. but if you don't have a gf then it doesn't really matter but if you want one you should just be focused on one person. if you sleep with girls wear a condom otherwise you get STDs. it's really your choice whether you want to sleep with girls. good luck!! =]
yeaaaah....how guys act in highschool really isn't impressive. if i were that age, i would prefer the non-grinding guy. and if you don't want to kiss, then don't. but if you wanting to, it should be with a girl you really like and are planning to or are dating. but that's just my take. gotta find your own way, i just hope it isn't the high sex drive, degrading girls for pleasure like most highschool tools way. best of luck!
Just be YOU!


If your going to do something like have sex it should be with someone you love and it should be when your ready to do so.If you felt guilty then don't do it.YOU should kiss people just to kiss you should do it out of love and respect.Don't lead people on.and don't act like someone ur not.Why have people like you for who ur not?Its going to get you no where
okay...well from a girls perspective you should just wait don't be like those other guys who are tools. it's a respect thing have respect for your self who cares what other people do or think i think it's better that you wait.
ok so if you have a gf ask her if she cares if you grind w/ other girls at the dances. personally i think she's gunna say no. be yourself otherwise n do wht u wanna do.
unless you really, really wanna seem like a total man-ho, keep it clean, and/or stick with your gf.
Be yo self dawg!
just do what you honestly feel to be right. the rest will come naturally
w.e makes you happy man, we only live once