How to handle my teenage daughter for wearing real short shorts and went to the mall wearing them?

i'm really embarrassed about this,i did not raise my daughter to be like this.Mom better handle it.I'm in my room on the computer to calm down.My daughter or wife really don't want me to handle it.I will when i'm calm.i'm in such a rage i'm holding back tears.





oh..and i am prepared for the teenage boy comebacks on here...so nice try.How to handle my teenage daughter for wearing real short shorts and went to the mall wearing them?
looks like your little girl is growing up. This is where the hard part of being a parent is - raising teenagers. They do what they want, and if they want to go out and party they will do it without your concent, they'll wear what they want and how they want. I'm sure its hard for you to see her growing up so fast but you got to get used to it because they're going to grow up eventually.How to handle my teenage daughter for wearing real short shorts and went to the mall wearing them?
You need to set boundaries. She probably knows that the shorts were too short, and that was most likely the look that she was going for. You and your wife need to explain to her that she doesn't want boys to like her for her body, but for her good qualities. She might like it better if her mom said this too! Also, you and your wife might want to not let her even buy the shorts in the first place!
at this age, she's trying to find herself, and get compliments.


someone saying ';wow, you have nice legs'; could make her get confidence, and that's what she's trying to get, confidence.


you should NOT get too angry and out of control, because that will end up getting her even more frustrated with you, and she'll probably wear them more.


it's not bad, don't worry, if you say too much, she'll get embarrassed and lose confidence.


don't worry until boys start getting involved. :)
Well, it's just a body - hers, in fact. ';Rage'; seems like an overreaction.





What's your concern? If you think people will assume things about her based on what she's wearing, explain that. If you think it isn't a nice look for her, explain that too. Maybe her mom can talk to her about finding clothes that are cute but a bit more flattering.
It's not what she wears it's


how she carries herself. And


also my mom dosen't let me wear certain


things but i still look cute.I'm 15


and my told me i could look sexy without


showing to much skin just exsplain that to her


trust me it will make her think. She may


give a little attitude but that's what us


girls do =]
you shouldn't do anything... short shorts are just what everyone wears. They're the only thing that stores even sell now-a-days, it's either that or bermudas.





If all she did was wear short shorts you don't need to freak out over it! If you disaprove so strongly of them then just tell her to change!
Try to get your wife to handle it. Either she or you need to explain to your daughter that this kind of behavior is unacceptable. Tell her that if she wears any type of revealing clothing again she will be grounded.
Tell her, in a matter-of-fact way, that if she goes to the mall dressed like that, she is asking sexual predators to hurt her.
Don't let her buy any mega short shorts. You're right, girls shouldn't be wearing such tiny articles of clothing (NEITHER should guys.)


You should law down the law as a parent and do what you think is right.
Maybe give away all the clothes that you don't think she should be wearing. And you really should let her mom take care of it. You can just be there for support.
you have a belt, she has a bottom, now get to work disciplining!
set boundaries


she'll hate u but take them away


by the way ur question is confusing





PeAcE.lOvE. HaPpInEsS
You need to set some boundaries, try compromising...she can wear them if she wears lleggings or footless tights under them.





You and your wife need to sit down and have a chat and see where you both stand on this.





Good luck x